humble home in Calgary
But that's okay. There was a time, in my mid-twenties, when I was living a life that would have led to mortgages and whatnot. But then I started to encounter a body of literature that inspired a different sort of life. Passages like "You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world" nudged me off the track.
So I moved to Australia. And then BC and Nova Scotia and then Japan. I married well, and I study. I work hard. But I am not my job.
If a person has ugly thoughts, it begins to show on the face. And when that person has ugly thoughts every day, every week, every year, the face gets uglier and uglier until you can hardly bear to look at it. A person who has good thoughts cannot ever be ugly. You can have a wonky nose and a crooked mouth and a double chin and stick-out teeth, but if you have good thoughts it will shine out of your face like sunbeams and you will always look lovely.
—Roald Dahl