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Toronto, 2011.04.16

This morning we visited the house of some new friends to plan a fundraising affair in support of a school in quake-ravaged NE Japan.

Apparently the school is now the home, until further notice, of refugees whose homes have been smashed and who have lost everything. We made signs, cooked food, and, in my case, sat half a dozen small children. It was great to meet the new friends, all of whom Mari met through the programs for which she'd signed up Kenny. Although he's refused to participate in the various programs (swimming, singing, gym time, and art class) Mari and Kenny have met other Japanese mums in the neighbourhood (including one who lives about three short blocks from us).

We'd accomplished everything we'd wanted to by about 14:20, and set off for our second event of the day, which was the fifth birthday of an old friend. We turned up at their place at around 16:00 after having found a card and a bag to wrap the boy's gift, and were there all evening. There was a tonne of food, both Philippine, as the boy's mother is, and Serbian, as is the boy's father. And of course there was cake (three cakes, to be precise) and a piñata. I held aloft the latter as various kids tried swinging at it. They were ultimately successful, of course, and I ultimately wound up with a bloody knuckle.

There were a number of fellows present who were police officers from the city's challenging 51 division, and I shared several opinions with them, fueled on Jägermeister, sangria, and a home-made Serbian drink that tasted like woody grappa.

A fine day. But all three of us were ready for bed by the time we got home at around ten.

rand()m quote

If I had my life to live over, I'd try to make more mistakes next time. I would relax, I would limber up, I would be crazier than I've been on this trip. I know very few things I'd take seriously any more. I'd certainly be less hygenic... I would take more chances, I would take more trips, I would scale more mountains, I would swim more rivers, and I would watch more sunsets. I would eat more ice cream and fewer beans. I would have more actual troubles and fewer imaginary ones. Oh, I've had my moments, and if I had to do it all over again, I'd have many more of them, in fact I'd try not to have anything else, just moments, one after another, instead of living so many years ahead of my day. If I had it to do all over again, I'd travel lighter, much lighter than I have. I would start barefoot earlier in the spring, and I'd stay that way later in the fall. And I would ride more merry-go-rounds, and catch more gold rings, and greet more people and pick more flowers and dance more often. If I had it to do all over again - but you see, I don't.

Jorge Luis Borges