Compare the above image with this one, in which no strobe was used.
The following were shot using a strobe either on or off the camera, but certainly with the settings at something other than my onboard camera's full blast white-out.
Interesting lighting, too bad about the thumb (thanks Mari!)
In dwelling, be close to the land. In meditation, delve deep into the heart. In dealing with others, be gentle and kind. In speech, be true. In work, be competent. In action, be careful of your timing.
—Lao Tsu